I’ve been thinking a lot lately, thinking and sometimes posting my better thoughts in various places – scrappy notebooks, my phone, my laptop, the monthly Newsletter I edit, and a particularly lovely notebook given to me earlier this year. My better thoughts are usually a little bit mystical perhaps, or maybe I just think that way, but it doesn’t matter. Writing them makes me feel wise, and some other people have enjoyed them too.
Doing things other people enjoy, whether it’s spreading wise words, or something else, doing anything good for other people can bring good things back to you. This article has much to say on the subject, and is well worth reading, to get some ideas on how you may be able to ‘do some good’ in the world.
Those of us with chronic illnesses may be in receipt of the good deeds done by others, and while this is nice to have happen, it can also make a person feel a little weak, or useless. But doing something good for someone else can be as simple as smiling kindly to a stranger, the person who drove you somewhere, perhaps. Every little act of good, or kindness, can help to build the amount of good in the world, and if you pass on the good done to you, and the person you do something good for does the same, what a wonderful world we may all bring about.
The more good things you can do for other people, the better you may feel! I am an example of this, I think. I was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis (MS) in 2010, after having an ‘event’ which was diagnosed as a relapse as a result of having MS. I hadn’t known I had it, but could see some signs of it in my past, once I knew what to look for. I was one medication that helped, and was doing OK with it, and once I was able to, I went back to my previous life, or at least as close to it as I could.
That previous life was fine, but I decided this new disease was a lesson to myself, to do the things in life I truly loved. So I continued with the writing things I love doing and being involved in, and I put my hand up to new things in my life whenever possible. Challenges became good things, instead of me looking at them as problems. I continued to look for and meet challenges, and my life is still feeling better and better to me.
I smile at strangers, I give useful feedback to writing friends, I post uplifting tips on social media to help others feel good about their lives. I’ve written and published more books than I ever thought I would, self-publishing, and loving it when I find new people to introduce my writing to. My book that has the same name as this blog – Mick, Jane and Me (Living Well With MS), was written and launched within three years. And this was after publishing and launching my first poetry collection within about a year of being diagnosed with this pernicious disease.
I had help from some lovely people to make these two books ‘come to life’, and I am still getting help from lovely people. I get help, I help others, and life continues on being lovely. I live in the country, and am able to find peace and good thoughts, looking at the lovely blue sky, the clouds, the wonderful trees all around where we live – beautiful!
Living in the country brings me a sense of well-being, and seeing how many in fact most of the people in my community, are always happy to help out whenever needed. I live a good life, and do what I can to help others to live a good life too. Good and doing good, are wonderful things, I hope you will find much good in your life, and share the good with others!